Chinese actress Deng Sha, known for roles in Swordsman (2013), Patterns of a beautyAND General and meis making headlines after appearing on the reality show Goodbye lover with her husband CEO Lu Xing. The couple’s troubled marriage quickly went viral when Deng Sha revealed they were living apart due to her six beloved dogs.
The trending phrase “Deng Sha and her husband live apart because of their dogs” has sent search rankings soaring on Chinese social media. Of her six dogs, four were rescued strays. Deng Sha treats them like family, showering them with affection. However, for her husband, the dogs have become a nightmare. He suffers from severe sleep deprivation due to their constant barking, especially at midnight, 3am and 5am.
The couple’s opposing lifestyles have already put a strain on communication. Deng Sha stays active late into the night, while Lu Xing maintains a strict daytime work schedule. Now, even quiet weekend moments are disturbed by the noise and chaos of dogs.
This clash has sparked a heated debate online. Supporters praise Deng Sha for her compassion towards abandoned animals, accusing her husband of being obnoxious. Critics say the dogs are seriously affecting his quality of life. After all, Lu
Their problems go beyond just the dogs. Deng Sha expressed regret for sacrificing his career for his family. She became pregnant during her rising stardom, missing out on major opportunities. She also complains that her husband, despite having been married for 13 years, has never traveled with her.
Lu Xing, in contrast, downplays his career, saying: “The greatest thing you did was give birth. You only played the role of handmaid anyway. And the child is already so fond of you – what more do you want?” He also criticized her for being inattentive, often traveling instead of spending time at home.
The couple’s drama leaves netizens divided. Some sympathize with Deng Sha’s sacrifices, while others side with Lu Xing’s frustrations. But many agree that the blame seems equally equal. Viewers now hope that their participation in the show will lead to self-reflection and perhaps reconciliation in a marriage clearly tested by time and lifestyle clashes.
