April 15, Katseye Member Lara has faced the growing voices of growing events that involve other members Daniela and Manon through a message on the DM Weverse platform. Lara clarified directly to the fans who do not have a relationship with either of them, stressing that they are close friends and comparing the idea of attending them at the “incest”.
While his calm and straightforward response was praised by many, he has turned on larger online conversations that surround the culture of fans, boundaries and the LGBTQ+ representation in K-pop.
Lara, who recently came out as queer, previously expressed concern about the fact that her identity could have an impact on her debut. Its opening was celebrated by fans, but the recent accident highlights the challenges that can arise when the parasocial relationships and friendships of real life are interpreted badly.
Some Netizen criticized those who hypothesized that Lara’s proximity to other women should be romantic, calling her a reflection of harmful stereotypes that cancel the validity of Platonic relationships. Others condemned the act of “sending” the idols of real life a practice in which fans comply with people in romantic relationships, especially when these hypotheses are brought directly to the idols themselves.
Please respect Lara.
Her being a strange woman is not an opportunity to insinuate her friendships and sisters are romantic. Fans’ behavior transforms the dynamics of the group of girls into uncomfortable ships and conversations is not good.
– #Katseye #lararaj https://t.co/mk6y80znye
– Global Lara • 👾 (@worldwidelara) April 15, 2025
You must be expected in private omfg not to say them directly on WEVERSE DMS…. Especially when you know you have read that shit … stupid ru https://t.co/rwmkwhq4mn
– Zoe 🍏 (@127sungs) April 15, 2025
The “shipping” has long been a controversial topic inside the fandom. While it can be a form of creative expression for some fans, involving real people without their consent is increasingly considered invasive or objectivating.
Although the opinions differ on the ethics of the expedition of the fans, there was an agreement widespread on the fact that these topics should not be presented to idols in ways that cross personal borders.
In the end, many fans expressed support for Lara and asked for greater respect for the privacy of idols, especially when it comes to sensitive issues such as sexuality and personal relationships.
