After their high-profile divorce earlier this year, Chen Xiao and Michelle Chen (陳妍希) are back in the spotlight, this time due to a family tragedy and some eye-opening revelations.
On February 18, 2025, the former couple publicly announced the end of their 9-year relationship, agreeing to co-parent their son. But recent events have put Chen Xiao in a negative light. When Michelle Chen’s father died in late 2025, Chen Xiao was absent from the funeral. Even more shocking? He was allegedly seen dining and drinking heavily with friends that same evening, with female staff members helping him walk due to intoxication.
Now, on December 12, a new level has emerged. Netizens have resurfaced private messages from Michelle Chen’s late father, revealing a surprisingly warm and caring view of Chen Xiao, even during the early days of their relationship.
“I have no opinion on Chen Xiao,” wrote in response to a fan in a DM, “but since Michelle accepted this marriage, we naturally embrace what she loves.” He also said he personally selected luxury coats and jackets from his collection to give to his future son-in-law as a goodwill gesture.
In another touching message, he explained why he had not insisted that Chen Xiao formally visit him: “I don’t have a son, and I understand how hard they work. Before Chen Xiao even had a chance to formally say goodbye to me, I had already prepared to take care of him as a son-in-law.” He concluded his message by thanking fans for supporting both Michelle and Chen Xiao and wishing them both happiness.
Now, with these loving messages visible to the public, the contrast with Chen Xiao’s supposedly disrespectful absence is drawing widespread criticism online.
“Even if they are divorced, skipping the funeral is too much” a comment read.
Others defended Chen Xiao, citing privacy and personal reasons, but the timing of the party and his visible drunken state only added fuel to the fire.
As public sympathy shifts towards Michelle Chen and her late father, Chen Xiao’s image is taking a noticeable hit. Some fans now question her sincerity during the marriage, especially given the sincere efforts of her former father-in-law.
Whether intentional or not, Chen Xiao’s no-show at the funeral reignited the public’s attention, proving that in the world of entertainment, personal actions – or inactions – can leave a lasting impact far beyond the stage.
Sources: Yahoo News
